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CFaithAnnW
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Post subject: 4012
 Posted: Mar 16, 2007 - 05:11 AM
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Well he knows that i do in fact think about them... i watch lesbian porn and have a ton of playboys of my own. I would hope that he isnt that stupied. In fact he is a very inteligent man with an IQ of 134. I am not going out and cheating on him with anybody... im faithful. I just think that i think too much. I have been loving him to bits and pieces when we are together and that gets my mind off of things. I still think about woman as i think i always will. My urge has declined since my first post due to the simple love that i can give my b/f.
BUT I have been starting to get worried. He denied me sex for a few days. (This has NEVER happend EVER, I could rup up against him and he would have a hard on lol) Then i was on our other computer and his AIM was up. He had a recent buddy which was obviously a girl with the same year of birth as me. (he just started a new job) None of his friends nor their g/fs are anywhere close in age to me. He has never talked about any girls that he works with. Its just so weird. But I really try not to think about it. I know in my heart he would never do anything to hurt me. I just worry a lot and would like your opinion before i open a can of worms.[addsig] |
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Post subject: 4014
Posted: Mar 16, 2007 - 02:07 PM
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| Why not just start asking him about work? Ya know "how was your day?" and maybe later mention the fact he doesn't talk about the people he works with. Keep it casual, see what happens =-)[addsig] |
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Post subject: 4016
Posted: Mar 16, 2007 - 02:20 PM
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| I always ask him how his day went and what they are having him do cause ever since he started hes been doing something different everyday. He talks a lot about work and the people he works with. Thats why i just dont understand. Never mentiond any girls except his one manager that is older than he is... me and my b/f are 3 years apart.[addsig] |
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Post subject: 4024
Posted: Mar 17, 2007 - 02:11 AM
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| You sound like a good mate you just have a lot on your mind. Although I can see why with you being a little horny. I can't imagine turning down sex though. You should talk to him about it.[addsig] |
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Post subject: 4025
Posted: Mar 17, 2007 - 05:20 PM
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| I work with a lot of people and I don't mention most of them to my guy. I only talk about the ones I interact with on a daily basis. So maybe he doesn't really have a close work relationship with these other women. Personally I think you are looking into this too hard. Why not ask him about whomever he was talking to on his AIM.[addsig] |
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Post subject: 4054
Posted: Mar 25, 2007 - 01:39 PM
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[quote]Well he knows that i do in fact think about them... i watch lesbian porn and have a ton of playboys of my own. I would hope that he isnt that stupied. In fact he is a very inteligent man with an IQ of 134. I am not going out and cheating on him with anybody... im faithful. I just think that i think too much. I have been loving him to bits and pieces when we are together and that gets my mind off of things. I still think about woman as i think i always will. My urge has declined since my first post due to the simple love that i can give my b/f.
BUT I have been starting to get worried. He denied me sex for a few days. (This has NEVER happend EVER, I could rup up against him and he would have a hard on lol) Then i was on our other computer and his AIM was up. He had a recent buddy which was obviously a girl with the same year of birth as me. (he just started a new job) None of his friends nor their g/fs are anywhere close in age to me. He has never talked about any girls that he works with. Its just so weird. But I really try not to think about it. I know in my heart he would never do anything to hurt me. I just worry a lot and would like your opinion before i open a can of worms.[/quote]
as a guy, i'd say he could be flirting with someone else. yeah, i know that's kinda negative to say but for him to deny you sex it could be coz his sexual interests is directed towards someone else. hope that's not the case, but being a guy... well... [addsig] |
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Post subject: 4058
Posted: Mar 27, 2007 - 01:16 AM
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(sorry i havent been able to get back i have been really busy at work and i broke my toe) Well i did ask him about the SN and he told me that he dont know that person and she has been on there for a really long time. He gets so mad if i mention anything about him and another girl. I feel as if he is pushing me away. Hes been really mean saying very hurtful things. (he says that they are jokes) I told him how much it hurts me but he dosent seem to care. Hes still not interested in me.
..........i dunno[addsig] |
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Post subject: 4063
Posted: Mar 27, 2007 - 08:44 PM
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This might be premature but, are you sure that he's faithful to you. Pushing you away and becoming very defensive when issues are brought to the table are all classic signs that perhaps a little fowl play is taking place. I really think you need to look into that.
As far as you having other feelings for women, I think that you really love your boyfriend and if you give it time those feelings will go away. Or maybe they won't go away but, your love and respect for him will prevent you from making a mistake that you'll regret.[addsig] |
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Post subject: 4065
Posted: Mar 28, 2007 - 01:13 AM
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| I honestly just dont know what to think anymore. One day hes ok and the next hes mad at me. I just dont know.[addsig] |
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Post subject: 4077
Posted: Mar 29, 2007 - 10:04 PM
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| Let him know that you've noticed his mood swings and that you are concerned. Ask him what's on his mind lately. Let him know that you care a lot for him and you want him to be able to talk to you about anything. [addsig] |
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Post subject: 4258
Posted: Apr 28, 2007 - 02:12 AM
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UPDATE!
We had a really long sit down talk. We were both kinda ignoring each other and getting depressed about our financial state. Now that we are in the clear financialy everything has gone back to normal. I above all am happy.[addsig] |
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Taia
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Post subject: 4268
Posted: Apr 30, 2007 - 01:46 AM
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In my opinion you need to choose what you want more, the man you are in love with or the idea of being with another women. It was good you were honest with him though. If you choose to stay with your partner then just have to deal with getting over women, or if you break it off you could live to regret it.
Thats just the way i see it though
Good luck
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Post subject: 4269
Posted: Apr 30, 2007 - 01:51 AM
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ooops i didnt realise there was a new page kinda off topic lol
im happy you are all back to normal now
xoxo[addsig] |
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