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Post subject: New relationship.. not sure awhat to do at this point. help!
 Posted: Jul 17, 2010 - 03:24 AM
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I know him for 2 years now. We haven't really dated because he lives ina different state but we've been talking over the phone for more than a year, and now he wants to come down to my city for a visit. since i live with parent's he wants to stay at a hotel and he want me to stay with him. as i said before we didn't date what so ever.. We've been talking about everything over the phone and now i think that im kind of afraid. i love him and want to be with him.. but im not sure if it's a crazy idea or not!! Please someone open my eyes!! ")
P.S. Not a first time thing.. just want to know what you girls think..
Thank you for your time!!
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Posted: Jul 17, 2010 - 03:09 PM
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| Well it's obvious he wants sex with you. But I must remind you that knowing someone over the net and knowing someone irl is totally different. My question is have you met this person before? What do you mean when you say you are not new to this? meeting men at hotels for sex? and how old are you? and how old is he? |
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Posted: Jul 17, 2010 - 04:31 PM
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We both are 23 years old and we have met a few times but it was a year ago and back then we were just friends, then he moved away and since that day we were talking over the phone only. We didn't date and for sure didn't sleep together.
I meant it will not be my first time with man. Never had one night stand... Im just confused right now.. not sure how to react in such situation.  |
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Posted: Jul 17, 2010 - 05:42 PM
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| Go see him but don't sleep with him. You will just turn into a booty call. |
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Posted: Jul 17, 2010 - 05:45 PM
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| The best thing to do is tell him that you want to go out on dates with him and you are not comfortable to jump into bed with him quite yet. |
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Posted: Jul 17, 2010 - 06:10 PM
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| Now if he changes his mind after you tell him that, then that should tell you how he feels about you. |
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Posted: Jul 18, 2010 - 06:06 PM
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That's exactly what im gonna do! If he really in love he will understand  |
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Posted: Jul 18, 2010 - 06:40 PM
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| Best of luck! And please come by and give us an update |
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Posted: Aug 14, 2010 - 01:17 AM
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We had really good weekends!
At first it was kinda strange to see him next to me, but after a while i realized that he is the one i really enjoy spending time together! We are just so in love, it's crazy!! We were inseparable for 2 days and it felt so right!! I've never felt anything like this before! ) so happy that he finally got a chance to come down and visit me! =) |
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Posted: Aug 14, 2010 - 01:53 AM
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That's good to hear  |
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Posted: Aug 14, 2010 - 02:15 PM
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| Hi I think you should just meet up with him but not sleep with him it is to soon. Just have a laugh together go to the park or cinema. Get to know him. If you both like each other then let sex happen naturally if that makes sense. Just have a laugh. |
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Posted: Aug 21, 2010 - 02:49 PM
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smackie9 wrote: Go see him but don't sleep with him.
yes, this is really what is right to do))  |
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