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n.antares
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Post subject: What should I do?? Please help
 Posted: Jun 25, 2010 - 04:13 AM
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Hello! I need some advice/opinions on this from someone. I'd really appreciate it if someone can help!
So here's what happened. I was at a party almost two weeks ago when this guy started flirting with me. Now, this is kinda big for me since a guy has never openly flirted with me before, especially not one that I actually like. 
So he asks for my number and tells me he and his friends are going to play soccer the next day and that I should come. So I go to this thing, but things were not what I thought it'd be. First, there were only two people there that I even knew with only one other girl there. Second, they were all playing a serious game, not a casual one like he said it would be. And third, 2 of the guys there were from my high school, and they were guys who used to bully me too. So, I bailed.
I text him apologizing for leaving so soon and to text me if he ever wanted to hang out. I hear nothing from him for a week, so I text him on Monday saying I'm in the area and asking him what he was up to. No response. Later that day, I talk to him on facebook. He says he was in class and apologizes for not responding, which I forgot about so I understood. But the conversation didn't last long because he had something early in the morning.
So this is what I'm wondering: What should I do now? Is he mad at me for bailing last time? Should I try to meet up with me so I can explain, or should I just give up?  |
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smackie9
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Posted: Jun 26, 2010 - 06:03 PM
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If he was a genuinely nice guy, he probably felt disappointed, but not mad. It might have made him feel insecure. He may be the type that has to muster up courage to even ask a girl out. Also he may have been stood up by girls in the past and feels you are no different than them. So this has made him unsure about you.
You can formally apologize IN PERSON. Explain that it wasn't personal on his part, but those 2 guys that were there made you feel very uncomfortable because they bullied you in the past. And you would like to make it up to him by taking him out to a movie. If he gives excuses that he may not be available, then this would be a good time to bail. |
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