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flutterby
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Post subject: threesome and respect?
 Posted: Jul 28, 2009 - 10:13 AM
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I haven't posted here in a while I've been MIA! But anyways, there's this guy I sort of like but he's not exactly what you would call a 'good guy'. Anyways I was with him and his friend and we were just hanging out, n it sort of led to fooling around with both of them at the same time....
I don't EVER do anything this crazy before so I'm not really sure what to think. But I don't know what they will think of me. I am not really looking for a relationship from them. What are guys like with respect and 'threesome' type things? Do they only do it with people they don't respect? thanks! lol... |
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Post subject: RE: threesome and respect?
Posted: Jul 28, 2009 - 02:27 PM
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| They just want you for their sexual pleasure so I don't see any respect there now. But if this arrangement is ok with you, then by all means experience it. Just don't expect any of them to call you up to go for lunch any time soon afterwards....maybe only for desert. |
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CrystalLee
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Post subject: RE: threesome and respect?
Posted: Sep 06, 2009 - 12:48 AM
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| well to be honest....its all about the sex in my opinion. All he wants it to get in and get out...I may be wrong and I have no experience in this field. |
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Post subject: RE: threesome and respect?
Posted: Sep 30, 2009 - 09:54 AM
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| threesome and respect are completely opposite! You are his sex toy, nothing more. How could you do that? You cannot ask for respect if you don't respect yourself. I hope you will change, it is for girls like you if men think only about sex: if all women were serious there wouldn't be divorces. I am not saying you are a bad person, don't be mad, I am saying you should reconsider your behaviour (and your friends). |
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Post subject: RE: threesome and respect?
Posted: Oct 03, 2009 - 11:58 AM
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| I don't think this arrangement is going to work for you. Try to be out of it and look out for some good relationship elsewhere. Rest is your belief. |
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Posted: Oct 10, 2009 - 10:22 PM
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There is nothing disrespectful about a threesome. As long as it's something you wanted to do and was fun for you then it's fine. Nooo it's GREAT! It's great to explore your sexuality and fantasies.
If you can find a guy that is nonjudgmental that you can talk about EVERYTHING with then you can have an amazing relationship.
Now you say this guy is not a "good guy" What does that mean? Because he's more open minded? Or is he a douche?
Guy's LOVE girls that are open minded and kinky with sex.
Especially if they are confident enough to admit it and not make excuses about it. If a guy has a problem with it then HE has a confidence issue. |
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Post subject: RE: 333
Posted: Oct 12, 2009 - 04:36 PM
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| i agree with nerd. threesomes and sex, for that matter, are separate from respect. threesomes can be respectful, such that outside the sex, they respect your person and your decisions. |
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mctlong
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Post subject: RE: 333
Posted: Oct 16, 2009 - 03:41 AM
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Do they only do it with people they don't respect? It depends on the guy. Some guys respect women they sleep with and some guys don't.
If you're not interested in a relationship with either of the guys, why does it matter if they respect you or not? |
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CrystalLee
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Post subject: RE: 333
Posted: Nov 02, 2009 - 01:08 PM
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| i would have to say its probably all about the sex, probably forfilling a fantasy... |
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VeTo
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Post subject: RE: 333
Posted: Nov 28, 2009 - 02:14 PM
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It takes a lot to get out of the little box that we are trained never to escape. Yes, many people (men and women) would not respect you for that. For many men, If you tell them you've had a threesome with two guys they may not see you as anything more than a sex toy. That's the reality. Maybe you just want to have that fantasy... but that's not the way most people would see it. Also, if i told a guy you were seriously into about these explorations and he was okay with it... would u really want him? So many questions.
On the other hand, If you are expecting NOTHING in return but sexual pleasure... go for it. Release your inhibitions and see how you feel. Don't worry about all the possibilities and what not. Don't worry about respect from those men or others if u decide to let them know of these explorations. Do it. If you can't approach it with an open mind and if you are secretly wanting their respect and if you will constantly feel the need to justify your actions to society and yourself.. i say you are not ready to go there. |
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