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flower_blossom
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Post subject: Im having trouble having orgasms...
 Posted: Feb 03, 2011 - 03:51 PM
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Ok, so I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I didnt use to have this problem, it used to be easy to have orgasms. But now Its harder and harder and my mind seems to wonder without me even wanting it to and it upsets me!
I fake them because I dont want to make my boyfriend feel bad, but at the same time im not satisfied. Ive also been wanting him to go down on me for a while, hes only done it once in his life, and hes shy/not used to it/not his thing. I guess it dissapoints me cuz I go down on him all the time and I find it super sexy if he would do it...How do I go about this, I want my good sex back, and I want him to go down on me...
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Post subject: RE: Im having trouble having orgasms...
Posted: Feb 05, 2011 - 12:57 PM
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flower_blossom wrote: Ok, so I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I didnt use to have this problem, it used to be easy to have orgasms. But now Its harder and harder and my mind seems to wonder without me even wanting it to and it upsets me!
I fake them because I dont want to make my boyfriend feel bad, but at the same time im not satisfied. Ive also been wanting him to go down on me for a while, hes only done it once in his life, and hes shy/not used to it/not his thing. I guess it dissapoints me cuz I go down on him all the time and I find it super sexy if he would do it...How do I go about this, I want my good sex back, and I want him to go down on me...
Help! Maybe you just need to spice things up with variety, have you tried fantasy play? Dressing up or adding toys, you can both discover all the new things you like. When things got a little stale between my boyfriend and I we started experimenting like this and found that dressing up was really hot and the toys can be a lot of fun, if you??™re shy to go into a store there are a lot of online sites..I always use *****spam*****, they ship in plain brown boxes so no need to be embarrassed or shy??¦give it a try ??? |
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flower_blossom
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Post subject: RE: Im having trouble having orgasms...
Posted: Feb 07, 2011 - 02:26 PM
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I think you are right, we've tried costumes before, and we really liked it, but I guess it's a constant work in progress!
Thanks so much I'll go look at the site! |
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stevesmith
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Posted: Feb 14, 2011 - 11:01 AM
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HI,
Why don't you use any medication for this problem ....There are many medication for this problem .... |
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snoopyfan
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Posted: Feb 23, 2011 - 06:06 PM
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| You should really try a bullet vibrator, it really helps you to feel enhanced pleasure. Sue Johansesn recommended these on her show numerous times so you can rely on her advice. I'm just passing along her message. |
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Posted: Feb 26, 2011 - 06:45 PM
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I'm wondering what kind of sex you guys are having.
I'm a guy, and as a guy I love it when I can throw a girl against the bed or the wall, pin her and just do evil things to her. But I also love when a girl takes COMPLETE control. If I meet her at her house and as soon as I get there, almost blindsidely, she throws herself at me and begins making out with me. She grabs me by the hands and lead me to her room. When we're there, she takes her clothes off and my clothes off too. She kisses me and then just knocks me in bed. She starts riding and if not, she tells what positions she wants. For example, "fuck me doggy style". In this situation however, I know it's ALL about her, although it's so enjoyable for me. You have to let your bf know this time it's about you though. You might tell him, "don't you dare come, not until I do"; "hit the inside of my pussy" or whatever spot you want; "go down on me" and I guess in your situation, if he doesn't then at that exact moment try this: Act like you jyst got turned off but DON'T get mad or frustrated or seem it. Get out of bed a start putting your clothes back on but act cool, as nothing's wrong. Mention a show you just remembered is on tv or that you're hungry. If he diesn't grab you and throw you back in bed and huh oes diwn on you then, i'm sorry, but there's a little something off with your bf.
What you can also do is this: I gave a friend who's also like your bf. What his gf did though was bet on something. If he wins, she goes down him for 15 mins. If she wins, he goes down on her for 15 mins. He actually agreed to this. |
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