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Post subject: Do Straight Guys Like This?
 Posted: Apr 17, 2008 - 01:21 AM
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My thanks to those of you who responded to the questions I asked after learning that my boyfriend and his buddies used to get together for circle jerks. Since some of you thought it was okay and others felt it wasn't I'm still not sure whether he's straight or gay -- and then something happened this afternoon that only added to my confusion.
We went out jogging and when we got back home we couldn't wait to shower so rather than take turns we decided to shower together. We behaved ourselves for a while but that didn't last very long. I admit -- I was one who got naughty first. Okay -- shame on me but I've never been able to pass up an opportunity to have fun. Girls reading this will understand when I say that you can't share a shower with a super buff guy and be expected to keep your hands to yourself. Let's just say I played rub-a-dub-dub with his privates and leave it at that. This resulted in him getting a stiffy like you wouldn't believe which I found hilarious and he found frustrating. He kidded me about it being my fault that he was in this predicament and asked that I quit giggling and do something about it,
I laughed and said I'd try so I got my hands good and soapy and started stroking him but it was sort of awkward with him facing me so I got behind him and reached around and found it much easier. I did my best to pump him the way I'd seen him do a few nights before and I must've done it right because I didn't hear any complaints.
Now then -- how to describe (without getting too graphic) what I did with my other hand. I ran it up and down the crack between his buttocks and I could tell he really enjoyed this. Then my middle finger located his tight little hole and I slipped it in. I didn't stick it in all the way but I could tell he wanted more of it because he reached back and spread his cheeks apart to provide easy access so I slid it in a little farther. You should've heard him ooh and aah. (To say he found the sensation incredibly pleasurable would be a major understatement.) After pulling my finger out and slipping it back in a few times I pushed it in as far as I could and wiggled it around and when I did this he started squirting like crazy. It was as if I'd pressed his LAUNCH button. When he finally finished coming he thanked me over and over again for doing him this way. You've never seen anyone so grateful.
Knowing this -- I trust you see why I can't help but wonder if maybe he's gay. |
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Post subject: RE: Do Straight Guys Like This?
Posted: Apr 17, 2008 - 02:48 AM
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That is where men's "G"spot is.....the prostate. It doesn't make him gay at all. Men get incredible stimulation in this area. You did good  You should Google "Men's G spot" , there's some interesting reading for ya. |
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Post subject: RE: Do Straight Guys Like This?
Posted: Apr 20, 2008 - 01:02 PM
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| Personallly speaking the anus does nothing for me and i always told my partners i dont like it and they all kept away. |
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smackie9
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Post subject: RE: Do Straight Guys Like This?
Posted: Apr 20, 2008 - 05:23 PM
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| I argue to my friend about this all the time. He says you are just not doing it right. Well not everyone is made the same.....some get more stimulated there more than others. Ya and it does nothing for me either. So what I say is, if it feels that good why would I not want enjoy it ....duh. |
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Posted: Apr 21, 2008 - 07:10 PM
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Now, I don't think it makes you gay by any means. But my boyfriend would disagree, he doesn't like me going anywhere near his butt. He can't stand it, he would tell you that your boyfriend is gay.
Although, I still disagree. |
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smackie9
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Posted: Apr 22, 2008 - 04:09 AM
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| Anything to do with the anus repulses some folks, so it's a no go for some. |
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Posted: Apr 22, 2008 - 11:57 PM
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| My bf would totally say that he's gay. I say he's prolly BI. Question: what stops him from enjoying sex in the butt with a man? I mean, if he enjoys it that much, then prolly Nothing stops him. I'd be freaked out. It may be my ignorance speaking, but it's so true. |
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Posted: Apr 23, 2008 - 01:16 AM
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| Wow ignorance is right. Sorry but I had to say that. I know of many very heterosexual men that like anal stimulation. But obviously you have to have an open mind to realize that it can enhance ones orgasm by ten fold. If you read about it you will see that is where the man's G-spot is...the prostate. And enjoying such stimulation is not gay. Being attracted to other men is gay....get it straight will ya. |
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Posted: Apr 23, 2008 - 03:17 AM
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Good answer smakie.
They enjoy having their prostate massaged. |
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Posted: Apr 24, 2008 - 09:06 PM
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mickie wrote: Good answer smakie.
They enjoy having their prostate massaged.
I agree, smackie9's answer is the best. Two of my boyfriends loved to be touched in this area, and I enjoyed giving them so much pleasure. Neither one was/is even remotely gay. And it's so much fun!
I'd say to each his own, whatever you enjoy the most is what's right for you. Yay!  |
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Posted: Apr 28, 2008 - 05:05 AM
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| a few of my boyfriends liked me playing with the anus, but ejaculation is a total different story. having normal intercourse with some anus simulation is condoned, too. i would be a little weirded out if he enjoyed anus pentration so much to the point of coming! |
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Posted: Apr 28, 2008 - 02:19 PM
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It's not weird, it is very common.
So if I guy does oral on you and makes you orgasm, does that make you a lesbian? |
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Posted: Apr 28, 2008 - 04:06 PM
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hehe erm, how can I convince my husband to do that?  |
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Posted: Apr 29, 2008 - 12:45 AM
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| It's always such a touchy subject. You can't force anyone to enjoy anal. And not everyone feels pleasure there. You could surprise him with anal beads. Just before and as he orgasms you slowly pull them out. Remember lube! |
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Posted: Apr 30, 2008 - 02:21 AM
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I was joking with my boyfriend about it and he said "I refuse to ever do it, I'm afraid I might like it." And I just laughed at him, and So I tried it, and before my hand could even get around he slapped it away and told me no.  |
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