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 Posted: Apr 14, 2008 - 09:28 PM
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I spoke to my friend and the vaginal rejuvination consists of laser surger on the muscles around the vagina. She tells me it wasn't too bad. She expected it to be worse and for recovery to take a bit, but she was just tender for a while after the procedure, and as I said, is very happy with the results.
Oh, and it was two kids, not three (sorry, Dee). |
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Posted: Apr 15, 2008 - 04:52 AM
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ouch...dunno if it's worth it.
you seem to be thinking a lot in the here and now and "let's get this fixed because i's gross"
talk to your boyfriend and your doctor as well as some professional help. i don't think that you need surgery to have this problem solved!
understand and accept your body, exercise and talk with your bf. you are young and should only get i fixed if it's a medical condition |
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Posted: Apr 15, 2008 - 03:10 PM
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| I'm not exactly a fan of surgery myself, and I definitely do *not* think this is gross. However, how she feels about herself is a little more important than how I feel. If she were my girlfriend, I'd be complimenting her, but I'd also try to be supportive and understanding. I guess I look at it as I do any other cosmetic surgery (especially boob jobs): not necessary in my own view (I've never seen a natural breast I didn't think was beautiful), but some women really need them for their own self-image. |
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Posted: Apr 21, 2008 - 01:10 AM
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whraven, thank you VERY much for the follow up! I really appreciate it. I have been looking for surgeons in the area and I plan on contacting one soon.
wtf, I just have an extreme fear of being loose. I really do not believe any type of professional help will do anything for me...I am very stubborn when it comes to something like this. Thanks for your post. |
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Posted: Apr 21, 2008 - 02:00 PM
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love,
i cannot say i really understand how you feel (and after losing so much weight last year and with no boobs left....let's just say that surgery did suddenly make sense)
but for you...i mean, up until that moment you had no idea about this and it threw you off track that much? you know you're not a tramp, you don't sleep around, that he was your first. a surgery can tighten you but i have the feeling you are doing it for the wrong reason (namely getting rid of what your bf said about how not-tight you apparently are).
i think you should try the workout, and talk to some professional. yes, you already sound very determined but i think you should do such a surgery for the right reasons only.
what does your bf say to all of this? |
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Posted: Apr 22, 2008 - 11:50 PM
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| I think maybe you need to *really* go over who you are doing this for. He is still with you, regardless of whether or not he thinks you're loose. Girls who think guys have a small penis are unlikely to finish with the guy based on his size. And if we do stay with them, they don't get a penis enlargement. If he came in a minute...it doesn't appear that he doesn't get pleasure from having sex with you. |
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Posted: Apr 23, 2008 - 08:21 PM
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| This lady has a real self-image issue, and all you can think about is pictures? It's guys like you that make me want to renounce my gender. |
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Posted: Oct 24, 2010 - 03:52 AM
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I just found this thread while looking for something else and it made my heart bleed.
My wife of 20 years is very very loose, in her whole life she has had two lovers. One before she was 19 and then only me for the last 20 so it has nothing to do with her sleeping around - it is just the way she is.
Like the poster, during intercourse I also slip 4 fingers into her at the same time and it is pleasurable for both of us. Sometimes we use a large dildo and I enter along side of this while making love to her which really stretches her out. Her vagina is amazing and the way it can stretch is incredibly sexual and quite the turn on. I love the feeling of making love to her, because there is little to no pressure around her lips on my penis, it allows me to instead feel every inch of her insides. I feel her warmth everywhere and it is intimate knowing that she is special in this regard. I know that most woman are not like this and she is so sweet that you would simply never guess that between her legs as something so huge and stretchy and hungry. I don't ever want to be with a woman who is tight again and wouldn't want my wife any other way.
I hope woman who consider themselves loose completely dismiss such invasive operations and instead embrace their gift and enjoy themselves without shame or disgust. If your man is negative towards your special place then find a man who is not so selfish and will love every inch of you exactly the way you are. |
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