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summer
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Post subject: Advice for a friend.
 Posted: Mar 28, 2008 - 04:05 AM
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| A friend of my sons, in his mid twentys, suspects his mom of having an affair. He 's seen her car at a neighborhood motel a few times, and yes, hes sure its hers, plus some other friends have told him they have seen her with a guy at nearby bars and resturants. Hes very close to his mom and dad both. Hes torn weather to go to his dad and tell him , or confront his mom, or just to stay out of it all together, and act like he dont know anything. What would you do? |
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CrystalLee
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Post subject: RE: Advice for a friend.
Posted: Mar 30, 2008 - 04:59 PM
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| I would Comfront his mom first just to make sure the assumptions are correct if he goes to his dad first he can make the situation much worse when there may be nothing going on at all....Most likely his mom will deny it even if it is true however so if she does I would advise your friend to get some hard evidence before going ahead to make a life changing decision... |
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smackie9
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Post subject: RE: Advice for a friend.
Posted: Mar 30, 2008 - 06:38 PM
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| He should also stay out of it after whatever she tells him. This is between his mom and dad. |
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babyface
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Post subject: RE: Advice for a friend.
Posted: Apr 03, 2008 - 10:04 AM
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| first of all you should stay out of it and he is twenty sumething he is a big boy it up ot him how he deals with this |
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summer
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Post subject: RE: Advice for a friend.
Posted: Apr 03, 2008 - 04:00 PM
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First off I agree with ME staying out of it.. except that hes the one that came to me for advice ! Thanks to all that commented here...
CrystalLee.. I did advise him to approach his mom .. but have proof.. picture of his moms car at motel or something to show incase of denial. Listen to what she says... and take it from their.
One thing is.. his parents might have some type of arrangement hes not even aware of .. like an open relationship or something like that.. more people than we think are into those type of relationships. Advised him to make sure of the boundries they had in their relationship first before he did anything else. ..
Have not heard back if hes actually done anything or not or the outcome. |
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