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lovelyfreya
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Post subject: New mummy
 Posted: Mar 13, 2008 - 11:27 PM
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My b,f has a little boy and has jus got custody over him which is great  . his mum lives far away and doesnt care about him , and now he has started to call me mummy , i feel really bad but my b,f says dont be , so he thinks im his mum hes only 4 , what should i do ,please help |
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mickie
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Post subject: RE: New mummy
Posted: Mar 14, 2008 - 02:33 AM
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Love that child.
Always love that child.
Never let that child feel unwanted. |
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CrystalLee
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Post subject: RE: New mummy
Posted: Mar 14, 2008 - 06:12 AM
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| Love him and care for him as if he were your own...if his real mom doesnt really care for him he needs a female figure in his life.... |
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lovelyfreya
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Post subject: RE: New mummy
Posted: Mar 14, 2008 - 08:03 AM
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thank you , i do i love him to peices as he is mine , i do alot for him when my b,f (his dad) is off at work when im not ,
what i find really bad is that his mum didnt even go 2 court once to try and get him back, hes been here bout 4 month now and she hasent got in contact once asking how he is , hes soooo cute its hard to think how any1 could do that , thanks |
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Post subject: RE: New mummy
Posted: Mar 19, 2008 - 03:24 AM
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kids bond fast and if he fells right now like u are his mommy then that is absolutely ok. no need to panic.
eventually he will know that you are not his birth mother. but you have all chances in the world to give this boy the love his real mother can not give him. use this chance and you will be the mommy and not the "mother"! |
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