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Post subject: Young Uninhibited Women at Husbands Work
 Posted: Mar 03, 2008 - 03:32 PM
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At my husband's workplace, there are several 20-30-ish very attractive women that flirt with every man there including my husband. He comes home and tells me about this one did this, and that one said that, not that I don't trust him because do. I know his love for me is solid and he knows the same. My only thing though is these young, brash, good lookin' things that think it's ok to say anything. I can deal with him telling me almost anything that they say but I find it amazing that sometime they say things that if I didn't completely trust him, I would be wondering about fidelity issues.
One young lady in peticular is bothering him, and I say bothering because that's what he calls it, with sexual inunendoes. Her latest was she knows that he's larger down there than most other men and she'd like to try him out. He told me Friday that she told him that she'd like to meet him in the storage room and try out mister stiffy, he told her to go back to work and do her job. I ask him how she found out he was any larger than other men and he said men talk and she probably found out from some of the other men. She pestered him two more times during the day, and right now he's think about turning her in for sexual harassment. One of his buddies that he told about his intentions said that if he does that, she'll try to turn the tables on him saying it was him trying to get her instead of the other way around and I know that's not the case. I've heard him talk on the phone from home to this guy about that so I know he's on the up and up with this problem.
What is it with these young women that think they can say anything and do anything and get away with it? Now I not saying that we have the perfect marriage, and that I have the perfect man, but for right now, he tells me I don't even have to worry and I believe him.....I kinda think she turns his stomach she is so forward. He says that other single guys her age ask her out all the time and probably is the best looking lady in the office. I think she's just playing a game of can she get who she wants and since he's turning her down she's trying harder to get him. He said she reminds him of a exxxxtremely good looking and well built office whore that you would see in porn movies. Again I ask, what is it with these young women???? |
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Posted: Mar 04, 2008 - 02:41 AM
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You know there will be women and guys that demand sexual attention from their co-workers. It does stem from insecurity, believe it or not. Your husband should report sexual harassment, and it is not considered a sign of weakness. It is putting them in their place and letting them know that everyone should act professional towards each other in the work place.
As for these women you say, they are insecure and in need constant reassurance that they are attractive. And being that way makes them think they have control over men with their looks. But what they don't see is that hey are making themselves look like idiots and no guy respects them. They are fools. So I would suggest your husband take action on this matter. |
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Posted: Mar 04, 2008 - 08:54 PM
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please don't say "young women" in general. i think i am exactly the age range that you are talking about but this behavior is sincerely disgusting and absolutely inappropriate.
i had trainings in sexual harassment prevention and i do think that a line has been crossed here. if your husband feels that she took it too far he should let his boss know about it! no way around it. yes, it's likely that the woman will try to make it sound like he started. but in any case it is about his dignity and the moral values he sets for himself!
being a little flirty in the office might be ok if everyone agrees to it. but this remark is clearly beyond a flirty comment!
support your husband and tell him to take appropriate steps! |
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Posted: Mar 04, 2008 - 10:39 PM
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| it has gone to far , this is sexual harassment and it most be stoped before some one gets hurt |
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Posted: Mar 06, 2008 - 05:42 PM
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| Update: The wheels are starting to turn......He turned her in to his boss and as it turns out she has been complained about by others and possibly the boss hasn't done anything about it. My husbands boss called our house and said isn't there some way that this can be worked out and my husband said no. When he got off the phone he said, his boss and his wife are going through some maritial problems and the first thing I said I wonder if SHE has cause it. I told my husband that he has to take this to the next level if his immediate boss drops the ball on this, did I do right by what I told him? I think his boss shouldn't have tried to pacify him that way, he may be right, the boss may be fooling around with HER but I think he shouldn't play one against the other, even if the boss is getting some on the side at the expense of his marriage, shame on him and I say, tuff.....you play with fire.....you get burned. |
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Posted: Mar 06, 2008 - 06:19 PM
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Posted: Mar 07, 2008 - 11:50 AM
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tankyou for the up date
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Posted: Mar 07, 2008 - 07:34 PM
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interesting twist!
no matter what interest your husbands boss has in this, he needs to respect a complaint (or several) about sexual harassment! it is neither your nor your husbands problem of what is going on in his boss' life. there is a clear problem at hand and this needs to be dealt with appropriately. if that boss is unable, take it to the next higher level!
the fact that others have complained as well just proves you were right with the decisions you have made so far. |
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Posted: Mar 09, 2008 - 01:38 PM
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| Update: The office whore(my words), told my husband if he went through with his complaint she was going to make it bad on him. He told her she couldn't make it bad on him so do what she thought she needed to do. She said that she'd tell me that she and he had been fooling around months before and cooled things off and she was just trying to rekindle things and he started with her but SHE rethought things and decided against fooling around with him. How interesting! He gave her our home phone number and my name and said I would welcome the call and that I knew everything that was going on from the get go and that the fooling around months ago was a lie. He told me several months ago that a new girl that was hired came on to many guys in the office area and that was her and that she repulsed him. I've talked to other wives and their husbands have been told the same thing and now I'm waiting for the phone call and am just waiting to tell that B$^$# Off!!!! Only bad thing, I think I may be in a long line to talk to her, could be number 5 or 6, who knows. |
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Posted: Mar 10, 2008 - 05:09 PM
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yeah, smart to tell everyone that you plan on blackmailing someone  probably bleached out the few brains cells that were left. 
did she call yet? I actually would try to tape that phone call in case you need it later! |
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Posted: Mar 11, 2008 - 01:39 AM
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wtf wrote: yeah, smart to tell everyone that you plan on blackmailing someone probably bleached out the few brains cells that were left.
did she call yet? I actually would try to tape that phone call in case you need it later!
Whoa not a good idea......it is against the law to record a phone conversation without the other person knowing. But a intervention with everyone involved would run her out of town! I'm sure she has played this game before. Anyone who acts like that has some kind of mental or emotional problem. So be careful, someone like that that gets painted into a corner can become vindictive, ie: tire slashing, etc....scary stuff. She really needs to grow the #@*& up! |
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Posted: Mar 11, 2008 - 02:33 AM
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In the state where I live it is legal to record telephone calls.
You do not have to tell the other person they are being recorded.
One party has to know that the call is being recorded. But the other party does not have to know.
Every State and Country has different laws.
Hey Tig....I would swear you write with a Houston accent. |
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Posted: Mar 11, 2008 - 05:48 PM
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 dont want to get you into trouble...scratch the phone conversation taping if it's really not legal.
on the other hand, get people to listen in, that way you have witnesses!  sorry, watched too much detective stuff lately |
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Posted: Mar 14, 2008 - 06:53 AM
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Update: Right now can't say much, police involved, either #2 or #3 wife in line worked the office whore over and put her in the hospital. Both #2 and 3 are into martial arts so could have been either one, #3's getting the blame at his work, she's a black belt. She's in bad shape. A couple of people from my husband's work went to see her and almost didn't recognize her, she's not talking. Police ask questions but nobody knew anything.
Mickie.......you're pretty close, about 220 miles north and you got me. |
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Posted: Mar 14, 2008 - 11:24 AM
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i think quite alot of woman are in this poss, my b,f works as a manager in tesco and every time i go in there there is a certian woman that is always rwnd him , i wish i cud jus go up 2 her n smack her 1 lol but i trust my man totally , so dont worry bout it if u trust him
theres always going to be a woman slag in the work place lol |
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