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Post subject: 3136
 Posted: Nov 29, 2006 - 09:33 AM
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I've never cheated on anyone.
It felt awful when I was cheated on, I would never put anyone through that. If I suspect they are cheating, I kick em to the curb.
However, I know a lot more women that cheat than men. [addsig] |
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Post subject: 3234
Posted: Dec 09, 2006 - 11:02 PM
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| i have never cheated because i have been cheated on and it is the worst feeling ever![addsig] |
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Post subject: 3368
Posted: Dec 28, 2006 - 07:38 PM
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[quote]However, I know a lot more women that cheat than men. [/quote]
That's because it's a damn sight easier for women to cheat - it's easier to seduce men than t'other way around  I've cheated a couple of times; the first time as a revenge thing on a boyfriend, and I was just waiting for him to get fed up of me! (He was a tosser, but I didn't have the guts to dump him first!)
The second time was just because we had been apart for ages and I got drunk and lonely. I think I must have been bored of him because you don't just cheat on someone if you're bored or drunk or lonely do you!!!
I think cheating is an abhorrent thing to do, but everyone does it somehow, somewhere, and to someone in their lives - thankfully I think I'm going to manage to resist this time, my current boyfriend is an absolute STAR!  [addsig] |
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Post subject: 3397
Posted: Jan 02, 2007 - 07:02 AM
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| Here's the question I always ask myself "Why cheat if you're in a great relationship?" If you have the urge to cheat then maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship[addsig] |
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Post subject: 3727
Posted: Feb 18, 2007 - 05:43 PM
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Is a group sex cheating? I mean we had sex - my husband, I and a woman. Is that like cheating?
Without my husband - yes, with a woman that we both had sex with...[addsig] |
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Post subject: 3775
Posted: Feb 21, 2007 - 08:33 PM
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| Its all what you and your partner make of it. But group sex is not cheating as long as your partner gives consent. But I dont get group sex. I just dont get it. Why would you want to have sex with another person if your already in a relationship? Why would you need another person when making love? Why would you want to share your partner? I know i wouldnt... im too selfish.[addsig] |
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Post subject: 3822
Posted: Feb 28, 2007 - 05:14 PM
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I don't get it, Lucky, you and your husband had sex with the same woman at the same time and separately as well? Did he have penetrative sex with her? Were you not awfully jealous?
AS to cheating I think we women cheat when we somehow feel we've been disappointed. But cheating will solve nothing, it's just the beginning of the end or the beginning of a very sad time in your relationship. I think that if you seriously want to cheat, you should think about taking a break from your partner.[addsig] |
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Post subject: 3883
Posted: Mar 04, 2007 - 03:15 AM
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| Never Would, Never Will[addsig] |
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Post subject: 4273
Posted: Apr 30, 2007 - 02:06 AM
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| I would never cheat never have never will.[addsig] |
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Post subject: 4432
Posted: May 28, 2007 - 11:59 PM
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| I have never cheated on any of my partners in the way of sleeping with someone else (one nights stands NO) but I have mentaly and when its got that far I have always told my partner its over, befour sleeping with anyone eles, I must say I have been the other woman I was young and wild, but I also think you can't help who you fall in love with, as for open relashionships I think it takes a strong woman or man to share there love / sex / lust with over ppl its a fine line to cross[addsig] |
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Post subject: RE: 1893
Posted: Feb 22, 2008 - 01:58 PM
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| My husband say's if I want to any time I can , he would not mind if it is good for my . but he would never cheet on my , He was a virgin when we got marred at 31 years old , he likes other women get's turned on buy sexy women but can't go any futher , Some- times i think it would be ok if it makes him happy, deep down I want to keep him just for me , sex is not that important to me , I can go so far next to never want to go the whole way , he think's I have a problim with sex |
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Posted: Feb 23, 2008 - 06:41 PM
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never say never...that's one lesson i learned.
i once was "the other woman" and now looking back i don't know why i even did it. but i did. despite all moral values blabla.
it has taught me that while i would never (haha...there you go) cheat on my bf or husband, i do understand why someone would do it. there are many issues and reasons and there is no black and white answer. |
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Posted: Feb 24, 2008 - 05:50 PM
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| Yes you are definitely right. Everyone has their own reason for doing it. |
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Post subject: RE: 1893
Posted: Feb 28, 2008 - 06:45 PM
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I have only cheated once and tht was when i was drunk , but with my recent b.f i woudn't dream of it , i love him to much . probaly the only reason i chated on tht b.f was because i knew he was doing it to me  |
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Post subject: RE: 1893
Posted: Mar 27, 2008 - 09:37 PM
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| Ive always thought the reason people cheat is because they are unhappy in their former relationship. Their being ignored... or put on the shelf of sexual ties. While this may not give them the right to look elsewhere.. I feel its ALOT of the other partners fault. Because one cannot make a relationship work.. and if they are not both giving 100 percent .. then its more or less doomed. As already mentioned people cheat for many reasons. People who say.. i would never cheat.. well what if your partner became abusive.. not physically, but verbally, began to completly loose interest and so forth. Yes, I know many would say in responce to that.. then end that relationship before moving on. But again, many people stay , even if they are having an affair, for reasons they cant controll.. such as in the case of a woman I know whos spouce had kept her more or less dependent on him throught out their 30 some years of marriage. Never allowing her to work. They seperated a few years in which time she tried to get a job but at 45 yrs old no place wanted someone at that age with no experience , at least not a position where she could have affforded to suupport herself. Due to financial hardship she ended up going back to him. But she lives in hell everyday. So,. we dont know what a persons situation is, or what leads them to step outside of the marriage, or what we would do if we were in their shoes. |
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