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smackie9
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Post subject: 1014
 Posted: Dec 22, 2004 - 05:13 PM
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| Why do people cheat on their partners? And that is including emotional relationships as well. As a cheater, do you think it's ok? Or is there some remorse?[addsig] |
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LilMami2007
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Post subject: 1016
Posted: Dec 22, 2004 - 06:54 PM
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| I have cheated before, My husband is a truckdriver so I was feeling somewhat of an emotional withdrawal.. I do have remorse, yet My husband knows what I did. I realize now there is NO excuse to cheat on the person who loves you and that you Love no matter what they do to you, because it not only has effects on them, but on you too.[addsig] |
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Post subject: 1204
Posted: May 29, 2005 - 02:41 AM
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There are many reasons why people cheat, for some it is as simple as a hand shake, for others it is an entire change in there lives. I believe it starts with how high do you hold up sexual activities, is it just an act or is it a part only for 2 people in love to share? Emotional cheating...hmm, is that like fantasizing about a hot guy or girl or is it flirting with someone at work or is it getting truly involved with an online net person, where only your minds are meeting? That is a loaded question. For me sexual interludes are a very important part of 2 people devoted and comitted to one another , never ever to be challenged. There should never be a question or even a blink to where ones loyalties lie. thats it thats all..bye 4 now
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Helga
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Post subject: 1209
Posted: May 30, 2005 - 06:43 AM
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| Oops, sorry, do you mean cheating in sex or in general? Anyway, I have never cheated on people. Speaking about sex, I think I won't be able to look into my guy's eyes if I cheat on him. So does he. And in general I don't like to cheat myself and to be cheated. [addsig] |
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simmi
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Post subject: 1234
Posted: May 31, 2005 - 05:12 AM
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| How any one can cheat in sex Helga;))[addsig] |
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Helga
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Post subject: 1238
Posted: May 31, 2005 - 05:51 AM
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| Some people can, believe me. I have heard and read about it. [addsig] |
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simmi
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Post subject: 1244
Posted: Jun 01, 2005 - 10:43 AM
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hi helga it is ok that u heard it i am also beliving u [addsig] |
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Helga
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Post subject: 1248
Posted: Jun 01, 2005 - 10:52 AM
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| sorry, simmi, I didn't quite catch what you meant by "i am also beliving u". I didn't mean myself when I spoke about cheating. Visa versa. I hate cheating in everything.[addsig] |
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perla
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Post subject: 1806
Posted: Nov 23, 2005 - 02:02 PM
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| i think chating is so easy and it can happen when u less expect it. I thought I will never cheat on the man I love and yet I did. And I feel so miserable about it... But I just met this other guy online and he is so lovely and he has such a warm heart and he brings out of me all that passion I have inside... and I can't live with him and I can't live without him either and I fel like going crazy! I do love my husband (although I'm sure none of you belive me, cos if I was you I would have thought the same...) but I also love this other guy that's never going to be wih me or ... mine. I wish I could stop it' but I'm not strong enaugh... Cheating hurts everyone, it hurts the ones I love as much as it hurts me and it makes me feel miserable.[addsig] |
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smackie9
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Post subject: 1821
Posted: Dec 05, 2005 - 12:55 AM
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Like a drug addict, you are getting high from the attention of another man. A release of serotonin in the brain and it makes you crave for more. And afterwards you feel like crap. Step away from what you are doing or you will lose everything and even end up being alone. The grass is never greener on the other side.
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Mwiza
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Post subject: 1825
Posted: Dec 07, 2005 - 04:13 AM
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| I have an emotional relationship with someone else that my bf doesnt know about. Dunno how i got myself involved. Dunno why I had gotten myself involved. I doubt if we both were expecting to fall inlove. I dont plan on telling my bf because the guy that I'm emotionally involved with n I will never be.[addsig] |
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Post subject: 1831
Posted: Dec 14, 2005 - 01:56 AM
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| Just remember this, when you are emotionally involved with someone, you are actually going through the dating process. In other words you are seeing someone else and you are stepping over the line and are cheating. If you don't end it, it's going to screw your head up if it hasn't already![addsig] |
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perla
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Post subject: 1842
Posted: Jan 03, 2006 - 01:24 PM
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| Well, it already screwed my had up and i'm so lost and scared. I almost lost everything. My husband is such a sweet man and he forgave me so many times but I don't think that will last much longer. I wish I could leave him and stop puting him through all that but he gets crazy everytime I say I want to leave. He sais we can get through this toghether. My lover can't be with me because he has his own family and kids and I don't want him to leave them because his kids need him so much, besides, he belongs there and they are his happiness. I can't let my lover go and I can't leave my husband either... My health is a mess because after all this started a year ago, I got so stressed and stopped eating, I lost a lot of weight, I'm so tired and exhausted and sicker every day. I get pneumonia every 2 months and I almost don't have my period. I can't leave my lover because I feel I almost can't breath without him, I can't leave my husband because it would hurt him so much more than what I'm doing to him now... Wish someone could help me with this...[addsig] |
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Post subject: 1890
Posted: Jan 22, 2006 - 06:18 PM
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| I have cheated on a long time boyfriend once because of the reason he cheated on me and two wrongs did not make a right and we broke up soon after [addsig] |
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NancyBright
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Post subject: 1893
Posted: Jan 22, 2006 - 10:11 PM
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| I cheated in my mind about a former BF. He had contacted me after many years and wanted to see me. We are both married. I avoided him but we did talk a few times. Didn't actually have contact but the memories were there. Only in imagination. Oh, I guess we did meet and talked. And mmmmmmmmmm hugged and a small peck on the neck. But then I cut it off. We may meet again someday but who knows. He is one of my former friends from school. A hunk! Nancy[addsig] |
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