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makari
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Post subject: pain after sex
 Posted: Jan 06, 2008 - 07:05 PM
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| very often after sex i feel like i have a thousand splinters of glas between my legs. urinating hurts and i can hardly sit. the next day it's just itchy. i went to my gyn. but she said i'm fine. has anyone of you experienced the same thing before? |
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Posted: Jan 24, 2008 - 10:45 PM
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| yea I know what you mean, I had that when I was having sex with my ex. I haven't experienced it recently though. I don't/didn't know what it is/was. So I'm afraid I can't help you. But if you find out, I'd like to know! |
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Posted: Jan 25, 2008 - 01:59 AM
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| It's mostly from friction....try using a lubricant.....always sold in the condom section. |
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Posted: Jan 31, 2008 - 04:36 PM
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| I just recently read that this can be caused by the girl not being fully aroused. I'm not sure if this is your problem or not, but it's just a suggestion. And like Smackie said, lubricant might help. |
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makari
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Posted: Feb 04, 2008 - 07:19 PM
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| yepp, lubricant does help, but it's kind of a turn off. i have that since i started with the pill, so that might be the reason. my gynaecologist said i was fine though. |
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Posted: Feb 04, 2008 - 10:38 PM
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Although I've got different plumbing from you, I can sympathize. A couple of my past lovers had that problem, as well as a few of my platonic female friends. Some of them also found lubricant unromantic, and just not in keeping with the "spur of the moment".
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my gynaecologist said i was fine though
Always good to know. Some women often have a chronic problem producing lubrication, and it can be frustrating if it's blamed on "psychological" reasons. And I have heard of some birth control pills causing dryness.
That said, there are is a possible alternative to artificial lubricants as long as it's not a physical problem. If it's dryness before entry that's causing the problem, extra foreplay frequently helps, especially if your lover is willing to perform oral sex on you (saliva is fair lubricant).
Another possible cause is prolonged sex. While many women find their lovers finish too soon, there are some who take long enough that the lubricant just sort of "wears off". In this case, switching positions, with some additional foreplay between might help. While some men who ordinarily don't mind "going down" on a woman will balk at oral sex in between positions, others are not so hesitant. I'm one of those who likes the taste, and will do almost anything so that my partner won't hurt afterwards. After all, it's supposed to be fun for both parties.
I don't know if any of this applies to you, but I hope you can talk to your lover and find something that works for you both. |
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makari
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Posted: Feb 05, 2008 - 12:54 PM
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thank you whraven! nice to have a man's opinion  |
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Posted: Sep 10, 2008 - 02:51 AM
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I'm another guy, but I can weigh in on this subject. My wife was on birth control for a while when we first got married 22 years ago. She would BURN profusely after sex and would need to get in the shower with some cool water to kinda wash my stuff out. We thought she was allergic to semen, but as it turns out once she went off the pill, all was fine.
During our life together, she had to go back on the pill for one month just to regulate her cycle, and when she was on the pill even the 2nd time several years later, we had the same problem.
I don't know anything about you ladies or what your experiencing really, but it could be this same phenomena. In any event, you are not alone. |
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