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Canucker
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Post subject: Ladies I need advice
 Posted: Jan 04, 2008 - 06:10 AM
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Alright, I understand that I am out of the loop(I am a guy), but I need a question answered that only the girls can answer. My first question is about eye contact: A couple year ago i really started trying to look people in the eyes and I have been doing so ever since. Is this creepy?
Second of all, there is this girl. We are just friends, but I really like her, but I really cannot tell how she feels about me. She says all these things like "marry me", " I love you", but i cannot tell if she is just playing around cause she knows I have good sense of humor. I am just confused to be honest with you. What do you girls think of this. What should i do! 
I would hate to ask her out, and make things awkward between us. She is a really great girl. |
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Post subject: RE: Ladies I need advice
Posted: Jan 07, 2008 - 03:48 AM
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I don't think eye contact is creepy, unless you are staring. I would prefer eye contact, let's me know the person is paying attention.
on the other question all I can say is talk to her. |
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makari
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Post subject: RE: Ladies I need advice
Posted: Jan 07, 2008 - 10:30 AM
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in french we say that there is always some truth in a joke...if she found you repulsive, she wouldn't be saying such things, even as a joke. ask her out! good luck  |
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Ivory
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Post subject: RE: Ladies I need advice
Posted: Jan 08, 2008 - 08:47 PM
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| i agree, i think she's fishing for a date but is probably bummed out you have yet to take the bait. |
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Canucker1
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Post subject: RE: Ladies I need advice
Posted: Jan 09, 2008 - 04:04 AM
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haha, now im on the hot seat eh. When do you think would be the best time to ask. I barely get any time to talk to her at school when she is not with her friends, and asking girl for dates on msn just doesnt seem right at all.
Any advice there? or am I on my own now haha |
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Post subject: RE: Ladies I need advice
Posted: Jan 09, 2008 - 04:10 AM
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| Ask her if you can talk to her alone, or if you have her number you could call her. I think she wants you to ask her out. |
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makari
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Post subject: RE: Ladies I need advice
Posted: Jan 09, 2008 - 02:35 PM
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| you could also do it the very old fashioned way: by throwing a message in her mailbox. nowadays it's always a big surprise to get a note this way. you don't need to write a novel. tell her to meet you somewhere in town without saying why and you take her to a nice cafe or restaurant. |
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Posted: Jan 11, 2008 - 09:34 PM
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| The thought is there, but I think she may find that somewhat creepy hahaha |
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makari
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Posted: Jan 12, 2008 - 11:21 AM
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i'm french...  |
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Posted: Aug 08, 2008 - 07:49 AM
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Posted: Aug 09, 2008 - 10:05 AM
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| These days it's ok to ask for pretty much anything on msn. You both I assume chat on there anyways so what the hell. |
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Posted: Aug 09, 2008 - 10:08 AM
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| You could just open with "Hey with all this talk of marrying me, how about we just go out then?" |
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Posted: Aug 15, 2008 - 05:03 PM
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Ask her out for a nice meal somewhere where you can talk and se where things lead to. You will soon know if she teasing you are not. Good luck
Sarah
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