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Coldliz
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Post subject: 4908
 Posted: Aug 15, 2007 - 06:59 PM
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| I'm getting the feeling you don't like me much. So, I'm backing out of this. Good luck. I hope it all works out for you.[addsig] |
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Xquesiano
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Post subject: 4910
Posted: Aug 15, 2007 - 07:33 PM
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| Coldiz, honest to god, if my responce made you think i do not like you, you are wrong, i'm at work so i kinda hurry up when typing, also, its just the way i type, any feedback from you is greatly appreciated. I was just trying to set a few facts straight, and respond to your post, no harm intended. [addsig] |
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Post subject: 4911
Posted: Aug 16, 2007 - 01:18 AM
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Well what I see is why wait? Do you fear she will break up with you for suggesting counseling? As for maturity...it's not very mature to threaten the one you love with infidelity. But I guess you want to wait it out. If you keep forgiving her for her bad behaviour, you are no different than an abused spouse. It happens to men as well as women. I think this should still be discussed with her....good and open communication is really the only thing that keeps a relationship solid. Staying over at some one's place is no way near like living together! I can vouch for that. That's a whole new ball game.
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Xquesiano
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Post subject: 4913
Posted: Aug 16, 2007 - 12:08 PM
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she has not threatedned me, she has said that its what has happened with all her past boyfriends, and that when she gets drunk at parties, she does that.
I don't think she'd break up with me for suggesting counseling, but i don't want her to freak out either, i think if i take things one step at a time it will be an esier transaction.
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