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vante
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Post subject: Please explain! Why do girls not talk first?
 Posted: Apr 04, 2010 - 07:03 PM
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I have like a lot of girls on my msn and i've known them for a very long time and met some of them in real life but for some reason none of them EVER talk to me first EVER. Can someone please explain why? All of them enjoy talking to me, we always laugh and talk about everyday stuff and we end up talking for like 3-4 hours but none of the ever starts a conversation and i just cant understand why.
I also have this girl thats my ex girlfirend and she randomly adds me on msn and yet she doesent write to me.... wth is going on? |
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smackie9
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Post subject: RE: Please explain! Why do girls not talk first?
Posted: Apr 05, 2010 - 05:13 PM
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| Because they don't want you to think they are into you in a relationship way. You are in what they call the friends zone. I'm guessing they don't look at you as bf material. If you want to turn that around you are going to have to not give them so much of your attention. It's call the push/pull method. You give them a little a tenntion then you back off and act disinterested.....this sometimes gets them to come after you. So stop being so available, tell them you are busy with stuff, etc. To make yourself desireable is to be undesirable. Kinda like a bad boy thing....girls like it. So stop being the sweet guy and have some attitude. |
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Posted: Apr 25, 2010 - 09:37 PM
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| Most of the girls might be shy to start on .............. |
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Posted: Jul 10, 2010 - 10:35 AM
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| Because they don't want to seem to eager, needy, or pushy. They don't know how interested a boy in them. Not to mention or mothers and grandmothers always tell us its tacky. Guys are the pursuer. It's the code. They like being chased, and most guys like the thrill of the chase. |
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monclerjackets
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Posted: Jul 19, 2010 - 08:08 AM
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| Yeah, I also think that You are in what they call the friends zone. |
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