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tigoldbiddies
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Post subject: I need some help on this one
 Posted: Sep 19, 2008 - 02:05 PM
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Concerning my husband's job.....he's a marketing supervisor......and a vendor ran a contest with 7 or 8 of their suppliers and he placed in the top ten. The company is footing the bill, all expenses paid to St Thomas Virgin Islands and the trip is in November. Here's the problem......he wants me to wear a bikini during the stay down there. I don't mind wearing a bikini for him mostly just for him but don't want to be on display for everyone else, I mean let's face it it's hard to hide these puppies (34EE) I ask him why his request and he said there is two women from his office that is going also and he wants me in the bikini while they are there.....now, what is with that. He isn't saying he wants to make them jealous but that is what it seems like.
In public places where a bathing suit is needed I usually wear a one piece and like I said earlier, you still can't hide these puppies. I'm not ashamed to wear a bikini, even with two kids in their early twenties, I have tried to take care of my body with exercise so what some of my friends who have gained weight and not been able to get it off, I have. I'm about 120# this week and my waist fluctuates between 25-26 inches so I don't have a problem wearing the bikini. I just try to be a little more modest in public. My husband is leaving it up to me and said he won't mention it any more, just that he wants me wearing it and I guess that in itself is what puts the pressure on me is that he wants me to wear it. Any ideas or anyone been in these shoes. |
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babyface
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Post subject: RE: I need some help on this one
Posted: Sep 19, 2008 - 09:27 PM
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| why not if you like your self make him proude |
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Posted: Sep 19, 2008 - 11:12 PM
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| You should wear what you want to wear and what you feel comfortable in.. not what he wants you to wear, after all confidence shows. |
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danni.shep
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Posted: Sep 25, 2008 - 08:08 PM
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| yeah wear what you want. I mean if you want to make him happy than go ahead and,wear one buy the best there is and show yourself off as thats what he wants you do. If it was me and my partner asked me to do this i would but i would wear something i feel good in! Also i would ask him why he wants you to do this? Also are these women dressing in swimsuits aswell? danni |
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babyface
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Posted: Sep 27, 2008 - 03:50 PM
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| bring him shopping get him to pay hehehe |
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Posted: Sep 28, 2008 - 08:58 AM
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tigoldbiddies
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Posted: Sep 30, 2008 - 08:42 PM
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| I'm taking some advice from here and getting him to buy my bikini, rather my new bikini and he's going with me to pick it out. To answer another question, he thinks the two women that will be there from his office are self proclaimed hotties......his words. He says that they think that they are God's gift to any man so he wants me in my bikini around the pool around them. His exact words were, give them something to shoot for when they get 15 years older. I can do that. Nothing like having a couple of younger women with attitudes along for the ride. We are going to have fun regardless and I'm gonna spend some of his companies' money, hopefully a lot of his companies' money, haha. |
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mickie
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Posted: Oct 02, 2008 - 01:20 AM
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I bet you have a great time.
Enjoy and come back to tell us all about it. |
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Posted: Mar 05, 2010 - 02:58 PM
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| This seems like a trivial favor from your husband. I have to say I envy your body with just your description and I think you really have something to flaunt and make that favor of your husband some one-time fun. Just like what babyface has said, make him also proud. It sounds like he really adores what you have become and wants that to be shown to the world even though it somehow gonna feed his ego but why not take the brighter side of it. It would be even more hurtful if he acted like he's not proud of your or what. |
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