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Atlantean
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Post subject: Dating and Penis Size
 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 - 02:32 AM
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I need a woman's perspective. I have this crush on a woman and I think we're close to dating. I'm thinking to myself, "oh no, what am I getting myself into!" I am very scared that IF and when the moment comes, she will mock me or will be put off by my small endowment. When should I tell her? How should I approach the issue? She is very sweet and I'm just getting to know her. This applies to any women I may meet in the future. This whole penis issue has been hampering getting a girlfriend for the longest time. A woman's point of view would be appreciated, but please don't tell me "just be yourself" or some other vague advice. Thanks!
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mickie
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Post subject: RE: Dating and Penis Size
Posted: Sep 17, 2008 - 02:16 PM
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NOW HEAR THIS !
A penis is a penis.
She will want you for who you are and how you behave and how you treat her.
Later, she will find your penis a really fun toy to play with. |
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VeTo
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Post subject: RE: Dating and Penis Size
Posted: Sep 17, 2008 - 04:40 PM
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Hey,
You know I've heard both sides. Men don't understand that women are different. We don't all have the same opinion on penis size. I've had female friends who have told me that they get most pleasure from oral sex and not vaginal sex even if the guy has an 8inch penis.
I've never actually been with a guy who has a small penis, but many of my friends have and they had mixed feelings about it. One think I hate, though, and I'm sure many women would say the same is an insecure guy in the bedroom. It makes matters tense. Be confident with who you are and what you have. Take command of the bedroom and the situation. There's nothing sexier than a guy who appears to know what he's doing.
I don't think you should address your penis size in any way at all. It would be awkward and it may even be a HUGE turn-off. Use good foreplay and dive into positions that feel really good for the both of you. Relax.
In short, it all depends on the girl. If she doesn't like you because of that then move on.... there are plenty of fish in the sea! |
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fiesta
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Post subject: RE: Dating and Penis Size
Posted: Sep 21, 2008 - 01:40 AM
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atlantean. If my penis were cut OFF, I could keep my lady completely satisfied. I'd like for you to think about the possibility of what I just said.
If you are stuck focusing on the length of your penis, I can tell you plainly that your focus is wrong.
Focus on making your girl happy. Focus on her. Focus on love and life and all those other things. Your penis size doesn't dictate what kind of friend you can be. It doesn't dictate what kind of lover you can be and it doesn't dictate what kind of husband you could be.
Let the unimportant things go. Focus on making your lady happy. Go out on a date. If you are worried about your penis size and you are "close to dating", you need to change your focus.
I'd be very happy to mentor you on this should you desire.
Cheers. |
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Atlantean
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Posted: Sep 21, 2008 - 04:19 AM
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Hello Everyone:
Thanks for the help. I'm going to see her this coming Saturday and am full with anticipation and infatuation. As a guy that tends to see the world in rational terms, these feelings seem kind of strange and illogical. Anyways, I'll try to play it by ear. I could use some mentoring fiesta, though I find it kind of difficult to imagine how one could pleasure a woman with no penis...guess that is why vibrators exist?. VeTo you may be correct in that all women are different. The lady I'm trying to date is a really sweet girl that is neither a size queen nor tall (I guess it would be a different issue with taller women since they do have larger genitalia), me being 5'7 could work. I also ask VeTo, do your friends go around discussing penis size of the men they've been with? That seems sort of odd. Is it something common among women? I don't really want to know about the breasts or vaginas of my friends' partners. Mickie, I know a penis is a penis, but you have to understand that in a society full of sexual innuendo and "bigger is better" mentality some men would naturally feel inadequate. I gather that if and when the moment comes, my confidence and treatment towards her will make up for any shortcoming. |
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smackie9
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Posted: Sep 22, 2008 - 07:09 PM
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| Don't worry about your penis. You must worry about four-play. That is where the performance of pleasure must taken seriously. |
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danni.shep
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Posted: Sep 25, 2008 - 08:36 PM
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hi i think everyone to there own everyone has there own issues or problems to be honest i wouldnt worry to much about this at all i mean if she likes you than she likes you for yourself not how big your penis is. To be far with me its not about size its how you use it that counts and most of my girlfriends say the same! i mean every woman is different and to some it matters but i would just go with the flow... good luck danni |
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babyface
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Posted: Sep 27, 2008 - 03:45 PM
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| The size of your dick is in your mind not hers ,think big and seh will see the difference in your way |
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Posted: Sep 28, 2008 - 09:04 AM
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| Men are stupid sometime,they don't know say some good. |
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joann
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Posted: Oct 05, 2008 - 10:32 AM
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I get an immense turn-on at the sight of a big penis. But it's just that - the sight of it. I guess that's because, like most women, I have fantasies.
When it comes down to it, it's what a man does with his whole body that matters.
Take her out for a lovely meal and pay her lots of compliments. Be attentive and sure of yourself, and make her feel special.
Then, if she still wants you for the size of your penis, she's probably not worth having. |
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