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babyface
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 Posted: Apr 03, 2008 - 09:55 AM
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| I think it is different for men then weman , We feel we have beind cheated on or have cheated on him , a man look's on it as haveing a bit on the side and it is ok as long as they are not found out |
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Posted: Apr 04, 2008 - 07:53 PM
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| it really depends on the circumstances, but i generally agree with babyface |
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Post subject: RE: 1893
Posted: Apr 13, 2008 - 01:41 PM
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| hi peeps about 2years ago i met this guy who i allso knew from school we were both older and wiser we got chating and at this time he had his own family and gf i was very surpised as we both were still young and i thought o well theres never guna be a chance now between us!! i'd just spilt up with my ex ov a few years so wasnt really looking 4anything and his mates were my mates aswell so it made it harder 4me as i knew there was something between us i could feel it all the time we were in the same room. i tryed my best to move on as i knew there would be no chance of us becoming a couple but i than fall 4this guy i had never felt like this about anyone b4 when i saw him my face lite up with joy i loved his company and personlity...... sometime later we became a couple and am very happy till this day! so does this mean im a bad person? or have cheated in anyway? thanks |
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TinyGirl
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Post subject: RE: 1893
Posted: Apr 14, 2008 - 10:44 PM
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| well first of all, some people cheat because they might not be having a good relationship to begin with. I will admit...i did cheat. or im not sure if its even considered cheating...but my ex boyfriend had broke up with me...i wasn't sure why he said so i can focus in "school" but i wasn't really sure. I really loved him deeply...i felt bad that he kept hanging my phone calls and hid me from "neighbors" I felt as though HE was the one cheating. So i felt like i needed someone that loved me...even though that was the dumbest thing i ever did. so yes i had sex with another guy but i felt horribly bad because i loved my ex. he found out about it and it hurt him...he called it cheating. I hurt myself mentally by doing it...and on top of that my ex would hurt me by bringing up the topic everytime we fought....so i felt extremely guilty. To tell you the truth i do not think it was okay what i did...i regret it until now. But yeah..... |
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Post subject: RE: 1893
Posted: Apr 17, 2008 - 02:41 PM
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| I cheated when i was a teenager. In retrospect i did it because I was just holding on to the relationship to be controlling it wasn't really important to me, so i stepped out on him. I don't cheat now though, its pointless. |
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Posted: May 16, 2008 - 08:26 PM
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| never cheated. never would. too messy. |
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Post subject: RE: 1893
Posted: Jun 26, 2008 - 06:47 PM
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I cheated on my ex.
After we canceled our wedding plans and tons of issues we stop having sex for about 6 or 7 months. During that time I tried so many ways to be intimate with him but he was very distant. Then one night I went out had a couple of drinks and in my search to feel loved or to feel wanted I slept with some girl. At first I tried to hide it from him but eventually the truth came out. We stayed together for another year but sincerely I think we both wasted our time trying to fix something that completely broken. I believe the reason why I cheated was to get out of the relationship since I wanted to feel loved and cared for and when I cheated on him I felt those feelings again. However, cheating is not an excuse and I know that I hurt someone that I truly cared for. |
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joann
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Posted: Oct 03, 2008 - 07:36 PM
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I have never physically cheated. But my brain cheats pretty regularly. Exactly what my husband's brain does I guess.  |
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