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kitten11
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Post subject: Young and inexperienced
Posted: Sep 10, 2008 - 08:48 PM
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| Hello there everyone. I just want to start off by saying I am young and I have come here to reach out for help. I am 16 years old and I have a boyfriend who is quite a few years older than me. I am a virgin and him and I have not had sex. Although, we've engaged in other sexual activities to discover eachothers bodies and get familiar. I don't mean to be too forward but when I masturbate, I can only orgasm by clitoral stimulation. When my boyfriend fingers me, I cannot orgasm either. I am quite worried that it is not normal and I've come here for help, since I have no one to talk to. Is it medically related or is it something else? |
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fiesta
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Post subject: RE: Young and inexperienced
Posted: Sep 11, 2008 - 12:15 AM
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You are totally normal. There are essentially 2 ways a female can get an orgasm. The first way is through clitoral stimulation and the Second is by stimulating the "g-spot". Very generally speaking, I'd say that clitoral orgasms are pretty easy for most women to accomplish, but the g-spot is another subject entirely.
There is nothing at all wrong with you. You are awesome. |
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babyface
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Post subject: RE: Young and inexperienced
Posted: Sep 18, 2008 - 03:07 PM
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| you are normal honey just take your time you are very young with along life infornt of you |
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wkugirl
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Post subject: RE: Young and inexperienced
Posted: Oct 20, 2008 - 08:35 PM
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you are absolutely normal. this is QUITE common, and especially at your young age, you have soooo much more to experience sexually throughout your life.
tell your boyfriend that you want him to stimulate your clitoris, or show him. |
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priscilla_girl
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Post subject: RE: Young and inexperienced
Posted: Oct 27, 2008 - 08:00 PM
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you're perfectly normal, I very rarely orgasm if there isn't any clit stimulation. My fiancee and I have been together for a year or so, and we are still learning new things about each other every day. Take your time  |
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tigoldbiddies
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Posted: Oct 28, 2008 - 01:49 PM
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| Absolutely normal........not to worry! |
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