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Post subject: How to please her...Need advice
 Posted: May 29, 2008 - 09:53 PM
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My girlfriend and i have been together over a year and have been enjoying various forms of four play and touching. We have very passionate love making without actual intercourse, i.e. touching each other, messages, oral, kissing etc. It has been great however she has only been able to climax once. Although she always gets very turned on and says it feels really good (and i believe her because of the look on her face during the act) i really want to give her an orgasm and not sure why its been so hard.
I have tried various techniques, including clitoral and inner g-spot stimulation, as well as tongue and finger, which she loves, but cant ever seem to get the climax...
Any ladies who can advise some techniques or thoughts so i can better satisfy her, shes so great to me so i want it to be just as great for her. |
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Post subject: RE: How to please her...Need advice
Posted: May 31, 2008 - 05:38 PM
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| Many women have this problem. Try using one of those clitoral vibrators. Here's a few names: silver bullet, i vibe pocket rocket, and there is one that is even disguised as a lipstick! Check out some sites sex toy sites. There are such a variety. |
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Post subject: RE: How to please her...Need advice
Posted: May 31, 2008 - 05:47 PM
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Also while using tongue, masturbate her. Rub the top, just above the "button" (not belly hehe) in a circular motion, tongue in and out of the hole, sucking. That will get her going. What you see in porno is not what feels good to us, it is just for show. The real stuff doesn't show
much action, that's why they never do it. So communication with your gf is priority one  |
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Post subject: RE: How to please her...Need advice
Posted: May 31, 2008 - 06:02 PM
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| On another note, they say that the woman needs to be open minded to the possibility of having one. So maybe giving her a nice massage to help her relax might benefit. |
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Post subject: RE: How to please her...Need advice
Posted: Sep 08, 2008 - 03:20 AM
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I'm with Smackie! She has posted very practical advice. My only addition to her advice applies to when you are going down on her. What I would suggest is to put your mouth over her and allow your lips to "seal" around her "area". Suck VERY slightly...pulling that tiny bit of back-pressure will make her clitoris stand out. Then lick the clitoris "flat-tongued" and constantly. When you see a positive reaction from her...ie her tummy is jumping, her head is sort of thrashing back and forth, then heighten your tongue activity making it a little more "pointy tongued" rather than flat tongued. That should send her over the edge.
Congratulations! HAHA! The vibe idea is awesome by the way. If she is opposed to the vibe, put a "shower massage" shower head in her shower with the hose attached so you/she can take it down and focus the water flow on her clitoris. You two can have some good clean fun in the shower!
Cheers. |
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