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ehhidunno
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Post subject: Question about a girl
 Posted: Aug 22, 2008 - 08:25 PM
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| Alright im new here but I needed a woman's perspective on a problem I have. I met this girl about a month ago at a party and I think we really hit it off, but I didnt ask her for her number because I had a girlfreind at the time. Then after I broke up with my girlfriend I got the girl from the party's number from her friend. I was realy nervous about texting her because I barely knew her but I ended up getting the courage to do it at about 4 am when i was really drunk. Anyways I made a fool of myself because it seems like this girl is a classy lady. What should I do? Text her again or leave it alone? BTW she goes to school in another city than I do but comes home to where I live on break from school. |
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mickie
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Post subject: RE: Question about a girl
Posted: Aug 22, 2008 - 09:18 PM
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| Have you checked back with her friend who gave you the phone number? You might gain some new information. |
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Posted: Aug 23, 2008 - 04:17 PM
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Confidence my friend! If this is a classy lady and you want to impress her, you need to pick up the phone and talk to her. Texting is so high school, and I don't find it a mature way to get someones attention. If you were digging each other that night why get shy on her now?
Dating is always a hit or miss situation. If she isn't interested, it's no big deal! Just move on. Hey at least you tried.
So the lack of confidence, and not picking up the phone to actually talk to the women is a point against you. But you can get yourself out of it. Call her and apologize for texting her at that crazy hour, and that you did it bc you were thinking of her. Then tell her the night you met her, she left an amazing impression on you and how beautiful she was to you. This will take a lot of guts to say but if I guy came out and said this to me, it would make me melt on the spot. Then just proceed to tell her that you would love to get to know her better and maybe get together sometime. That's providing she responds positively to your complement. That's all it takes to get your foot into door. Good luck:) |
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fiesta
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Post subject: Re: Question about a girl
Posted: Sep 02, 2008 - 01:20 AM
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ehhidunno wrote:
Alright im new here but I needed a woman's perspective on a problem I have. I met this girl about a month ago at a party and I think we really hit it off, but I didnt ask her for her number because I had a girlfreind at the time. Then after I broke up with my girlfriend I got the girl from the party's number from her friend. I was realy nervous about texting her because I barely knew her but I ended up getting the courage to do it at about 4 am when i was really drunk. Anyways I made a fool of myself because it seems like this girl is a classy lady. What should I do? Text her again or leave it alone? BTW she goes to school in another city than I do but comes home to where I live on break from school.
I'm a man and you asked for a woman's perspective, but the internet is free...so I'll give you my 2 cents too!
You didn't indicate what it was you did that made such a fool of you...what did you do? How do you perceive this girl to be a a "classy lady"? The fact that she doesn't buy a month-later drunk 4am text message positively?
Being a guy, I've had many, many rejected attempts. My suggestion is that if you really took a dump in her parade by saying something crude or something, then you just need to find another girl and consider this an education on what not to do.
If on the other hand you really didn't say anything too "off kilter" in your text, then be a man, CALL HER UP and SPEAK and stand on your own as a man.
If I were a girl and you texted me a month after a party I met you at, I wouldn't give you the time of day. I'd be thinking...what have you been doing for the last month?!?!?! If I'm a month down on your priority list, then you wouldn't even start to make mine other than to say uhhh...NO.
Cheers. |
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